Videos I watched on Internet Safety:
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This video called ,"Growing Up Online" was a very accurate depiction on how the lives of teenagers are so different today with technology and the internet. Alot of parents are worried on how they can protect their children. I think overall what I got out of these videos and articles that I read is that we must educate our children (and students) and then we kind of have to get them their space to an extent and let them make right choices. Like it said in the video and the article I read (Parenting in the Digital Age), children can find ways to get around our monitoring. So being so strict and monitoring too much or restricting them from using social networking sites (like Facebook) completely is just going to make many of them rebel. What I think the best to do is to teach them the dangers, teach them what you expect of them and then let them govern themselves to a certain extent like what we're taught in the gospel. I really like the talk by Elder Ballard, "Let Our Voices Be Heard". If our children have a testimony of the gospel they will make correct choices in regards to the internet. I liked the suggestions he gave:
"Seven things that every parent can do to minimize the negative effect media can have on our families:
1. We need to hold family councils and decide what our media standards are going to be.
2. We need to spend enough quality time with our children that we are consistently the main influence in their lives, not the media or any peer group.
3. We need to make good media choices ourselves and set good examples for our children.
4. We need to limit the amount of time our children watch TV or play video games or use the Internet each day. Virtual reality must not become their reality.
5. We need to use Internet filters and TV programming locks to prevent our children from “chancing upon” things they should not see.
6. We need to have TVs and computers in a much-used common room in the home, not in a bedroom or a private place.
7. We need to take time to watch appropriate media with our children and discuss with them how to make choices that will uplift and build rather than degrade and destroy."
I love these suggestions! I think that having the computers in a public place is probably one of the best ones. If we are at home enough and in close proximity of the computer it will be hard for our children to hide what they are doing. Also if they start acting suspicious when we come into the room, we'll know something is up. This will decrease the temptation that children might have to look at or participate in inappropriate things. Also being close with our children and being someone that they can confide in will decrease the chances that they will hide things from us and we can have greater trust in the choices they are making. Also knowing who their friends are and the influences that they have in their lives. I think as far as being a teacher some of the challenges we might face with internet safety is that as technology progresses and we require students more often to do things on the computer, such as homework or projects, they will be on the computer more and there is a greater chance of them being exposed to inappropriate things. Something we could do is in meeting with the parents in maybe parent-teacher conferences discuss with them how they encourage safe internet practices in the home, what filters they have, how much their child is alone in front of the computer, etc. Starting with educating the parents is probably the best way to go because hopefully they know their children well and they will know best how to instruct them. Also in class it could be helpful just to have a class discussion and go over how we can be careful on the internet, being polite-not cyberbullying, and not meeting strangers we meet online.